Sometimes You Need Not To Give A Fuck About What You Are Feeling, And Just Do It Anyway

I did not want to post anything today. I just didn’t feel like it, but then I couldn’t stop thinking about what my friend and I talked about yesterday. To hell with feelings anyway (for now). Yesterday I had an intellectual conversation with a friend of mine. There was so much that we seemed to have in common. Suffice it to say that we did … Continue reading Sometimes You Need Not To Give A Fuck About What You Are Feeling, And Just Do It Anyway

There Are Things In Life You Don’t Force

I’m always fond of repeating myself, and it’s not because I have nothing else to say, but because I find it so important that I have to say it all over again. People make mistakes; and not because they are flawed, but because they make random choices and bad decisions believing that nothing could possibly go wrong (the lie we always tell ourselves: that things will work themselves out, … Continue reading There Are Things In Life You Don’t Force

Communicate. Understand. Forgive and Reconcile.

Sometimes we question ourselves why we should take the first step when the other party is just doing nothing about the misunderstanding, quarrel, or a fight we’ve had. When they do nothing we just think they don’t feel sorry and they don’t care. And that hurts us. So, we stay put too; we move on with our lives, but still weighed down with how bad … Continue reading Communicate. Understand. Forgive and Reconcile.

Communicate. Understand. Forgive and Reconcile.

Sometimes we question ourselves why we should take the first step when the other party is just doing nothing about the misunderstanding, quarrel, or a fight we’ve had. When they do nothing we just think they don’t feel sorry and they don’t care. And that hurts us. So, we stay put too; we move on with our lives, but still weighed down with how bad … Continue reading Communicate. Understand. Forgive and Reconcile.

You Don’t Wait To Begin, You Just Begin And Wait To Finish

Yesterday was my birthday. In fact I wasn’t aware until my mother texted me in the morning, “happy birthday.” It was just a simple text, but my mother made it sound like such a big deal, and indeed it was. I read it a couple of times trying to savor the joy that radiated from my mother right through the text she sent me. I … Continue reading You Don’t Wait To Begin, You Just Begin And Wait To Finish